5 Things Every Middle School Parent Should Know:

1. Whatever you are trying to shelter your kids from, they’re probably doing it, talking about it or promoting it.
        - Teach your kids to stay away or respond appropriately to things that attack their purity and/or morality, don’t pretend they don’t exist!

2. Your kids might really want you to be a part of their lives, even if it feels like they are pushing you away.
        - I say “might” because unfortunately their are some out there that don’t, but you have a responsibility to do this anyway. An overwhelming majority of kids say their parents are the #1 influence in their lives.

3. Start now getting to know your kids friends.
        - First: these friends may become big influencers (good or bad) in their lives. Second: You have an opportunity to be a Godly example to another kid that may really need it.

4. Encourage your kids to excel in the things of God above anything else!
        - Sure, sports help to build discipline and character. Sure, education is extremely important, but God is the MOST important. If you aren’t already, start a family devotion or bible study once a week. (and stick to it!) It will teach your kids that your family prioritizes the things of God.

5. It’s your house, you pay for the iPhone, you pay for the internet and computer, it’s YOUR responsibility to make sure your kids are using them appropriately.
        - I’m not saying “don’t trust your kids,” but I strongly encourage ACCOUNTABILITY for your kids and YOU!

I know that there is a more than 5 things…if you think of one to add comment and add it.

4 Responses to “5 Things Every Middle School Parent Should Know:”

  1. ben fleming November 12, 2009 at 7:39 pm #

    #6. if your middle school student isn’t coming to triple on Wednesday nights at McGregor, you really aren’t a good parent.

  2. steven anderson November 12, 2009 at 7:51 pm #

    thanks Ben… I was going to put that one, but thought i might lose some credibility…

  3. Shawn Bergen November 12, 2009 at 8:58 pm #

    Great post Steven. This is timely counsel for parents and cannot be heralded enough! I am not a middle school parent yet, but I am grateful for your good counsel! Thank God for middle school pastors with wise counsel for parents. Grateful for you!

  4. steven anderson November 24, 2009 at 2:37 pm #

    this was on FB from Jackie MacLean..Having a senior who is graduating this year, I can say that your list is right on! Another item would be to keep speaking truth to them even when they’re not listening. You may just hear those same words come out of their mouths when you least expect it. Thanks!Thanks Jackie for your feedback

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